Everyone knows *it’s all about confidence. Feeling it. Acting like you do, even when you don’t. Knowing how to remain humble even when you have a lot of it. For women and men, confidence brings all the potential sexy time partners to the yard. But what, exactly, is confidence? Everyone talks about how you should have it, but nobody ever clearly defines this thing, which is not really particularly definable because it’s a combination of attitude/tangible accomplishments/general smell goodness and hygiene maintenance. So, this week, for Askmen.com, we try to breakdown this mythological thing called confidence. How to get it. What it looks like. And maybe even what it smells like (hint: not like new leather seats or money). You should read it, or else I will put a witchy spell on you damning you to a life of crippling insecurity. Just kidding. I won’t do that. I’m only on level 1 of my black magic book. But seriously, fumbling boys of the universe and overcompensating monster truck drivers alike, read our advice column here, especially because Joseph from the Philippines commented, “Every guy should read this.” Don’t let Joseph get a leg up on you.